From chaos tto calm: master the art

of parenting without the drama

Right now you’re at the end of your rope.

You’ve followed all the advice, Googled ‘til your eyes crossed, tried every Pinterest-inspired “hack” you can find, but still your kid...

... has transformed into a meltdown maestro.

...has totally lost their “listening ears”.

...makes rude remarks with a side of expert-level ignoring

...has made anger becomes an Olympic sport, with you as the unwilling punching bag.

...can't handle change, triggering epic battles against anything unfamiliar. destructive and defiant. A pint-sized rebel.

You feel like you need to “set better boundaries,” be more “consistent,” and engage your child in more “structured learning activities,”


…you’re already on the brink of exhaustion, racing against the clock to fulfill the constant demands for snacks, powered by a potent mixture of adrenaline and coffee trying to raise well behaved (and mostly lovable) tiny humans.

It already feels like you’re keeping your head barely above water; without throwing on the pressure to do all the things, for all the people! You don’t have time for any of this!

So when your little one takes forever to get things done, loses their cool, or morphs into full-on Darth Toddler, it can seem impossible to know what to do to manage and correct their behaviour.

Here's the surprising fact you are probably missing:

Children do well if they can, and if they aren't it's because they don't have the skills to.

If all the interventions in the world aren’t improving your child’s behaviour—it’s for one simple reason:

Tips, tricks, and one-off strategies aren't enough.

What your child truly needs is to master the three mighty pillars of childhood success: regulation, executive skills, and critical thinking—the bedrock of sensible thinking, feeling, and acting.

Without these essential skills, it’s an uphill battle for your child to maintain their composure, retain directions, or forge lasting friendships. 

The challenge is that your child wasn’t born with these skills. But they can learn them!

Imagine being able to correct your child's behaviour without massive meltdowns or losing your ever-loving mind!

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Picture this with me:

You’re rushing to get out the door with your 1 and 4 year olds when it hits you: your 4 year old has put on his socks and shoes, just as you asked. His shoes even match! As you rush around throwing last minute things in the bag you ask him to help his sister with her shoes, and when you come back—they’re on! The right feet!

As he helps his sister stand up she accidentally pushes him to the ground and you see a hand fly out. You brace for the scream—but it never comes:

“UGH, Sissy, please be careful, I don’t like it when you push me!”

Is this for real? Are you DREAMING?

Pulling up to play group you remind your son that there will be children who look his age, but are much younger than him and to be kind. As you walk inside it’s pure pandemonium, and you quickly retreat to your group of friends around the coffee maker. Every time a child screams you tense up and wait to hear the familiar screams of “MOM!!”, but every single time it’s someone else’s child.

You graciously accept compliments from the other parents about how kind, sweet, and what a great leader your child is. They ask you what your secret is—just a few months ago he was barrelling over other children, hitting when he wanted a toy, and melting down when it was time to leave.

When it comes time to leave, you give a five minute warning and ask your child to locate his shoes. You’re floored to see him ready and waiting to go, happily waving goodbye to his friends- no tears!

Upon returning home your son requests a peanut butter sandwich, but you’re out of his preferred bread.

“That’s okay, maybe I’ll just have some soup then.” he replies.

You finally feel like you can breathe—the time and effort you spend getting through a day is greatly reduced, your son is happier and more confident in his abilities. You can’t wait to keep going, watching him grow and take on the world. 

Did you read this and think, “there is no way that is possible for my child...”

If so, let me show you how.

introducing the

ParentAbility Membership Program logo

ParentAbility will teach you how to equip your child with the tools their minds need to be calm, independent, and listen.

Kids want to rock it when faced with challenges, but sometimes they just don’t have the know-how. That’s where us parents step in, ready to equip them with the skills they need to shine like superstars.

The ParentAbility program does exactly that.

With this game-changer in your corner, YOU can arm your child with the exact skills they need to become awesome human beings. Get ready for a major upgrade as you gain access to a complete system, killer tools, and rock-solid support that’ll boost your parenting game with a whole new level of confidence.

With ParentAbility, your family can look forward to:

Does this have you saying, “YES, I need this!”?

Other parents have seen these amazing results in their families and you can too!

Now it's your turn to join the hundreds of families the ParentAbility program has already helped:

Here’s what you get when you join:

You’ll gain full access to the online learning portal full of video trainings and resources, including…

The Stress Section

Master in-the-moment strategies to address misbehavior without resorting to time-outs, yelling, or threats. We guide you with practical techniques that promote positive outcomes, fostering understanding and cooperation. Say goodbye to ineffective disciplinary tactics and hello to a harmonious parenting approach that strengthens your bond with your child.


• The Natural and Logical Consequences Workshop: Say goodbye to time-outs, yelling, and threats while teaching your children to think critically about their actions. This workshop empowers you with effective in-the-moment strategies that eliminate power struggles and guide behavior with natural and logical consequences.

• Visuals Masterclass and Library: Set up your home environment for independence, reduce power struggles, and support smooth transitions with our comprehensive Visuals Masterclass and Library. Discover a treasure trove of practical techniques and resources, using visual cues that foster understanding, cooperation, and harmonious routines.

($197 value)

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The Thinking Section

Identify and build the 8 executive mental skills crucial for well-behaved children. Incorporate play for just 10 minutes a day, making skill development enjoyable and effective. 

• The Skills Inventory: Uncover your child’s strongest and weakest executive skills with our comprehensive Skills Inventory. Gain valuable insights into their individual strengths and areas for growth, paving the way for targeted skill development.

• Skills-Focused Games and Activities: Make skill-building a joyous adventure with our collection of engaging games and activities. Spend just 10 minutes a day, and watch as weak skills transform into strengths. Say goodbye to tedious drills and hello to fun-filled learning experiences that foster growth and development.

($197 value)

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The Skills Section

Get ready to delve ‘under the hood’ and unravel the mysteries of your child’s incredible mind. You’ll understand how their brain processes information, makes decisions, harnesses emotions, and embraces learning. With us by your side, you’ll always be in the know about why your child behaves the way they do and, most importantly, discover effective solutions to guide them.


  • The Stress Inventory: Uncover the hidden stressors impacting both your child and your family. No stressor will escape your radar!

  • Stress-reduction and coping strategies: Equip yourself with a toolbox full of techniques to manage and alleviate stress-related behaviors. Say goodbye to stress-induced meltdowns and welcome a newfound sense of calm and harmony.

  • Regulation Cycle Setup: Build a regulation cycle tailored to your child’s needs, seamlessly fitting into their daily routine to promote a state of calm. Experience the power of a well-orchestrated cycle that keeps your child centered and thriving throughout the day.

($197 value)

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Private Community for Support

Gain exclusive access to our private community app, available on iOS, Android, and web platforms. Join a supportive community of like-minded parents where you can receive ongoing daily coaching, seek support, and find accountability. Share experiences, exchange tips, and receive guidance from Allana and fellow members as you navigate your parenting journey. Together, we’ll create a nurturing space where you can find the encouragement and motivation you need to thrive.

($1997/year value)

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Three Monthly Coaching Calls with Allana

Join our thrice-monthly group coaching calls for personalized guidance on your parenting journey. Share victories, tackle challenges, and tailor activities to your family’s unique needs.

Plus, enjoy bonus access to our twice-monthly Behaviour Bites newsletter. This action-packed newsletter is your personal cheat sheet from our recent coaching calls, delivered straight to your inbox. With the added support of Allana and a community of parents, you’ll navigate parenting with confidence, clarity, and a dash of humor.

($3,300/year value)

PLUS: Gain access to these members-only bonuses!

Topic-specific trainings and resources only available to members of ParentAbility:

The Same Page Parenting Plan

Our 5-video discussion guide is the key to unlocking productive conversations between you and your spouse. Put all the cards on the table and address your parenting concerns head-on, ensuring that everyone is on the same page and confident. With expert guidance and thought-provoking discussions, you’ll navigate parenting challenges together, fostering understanding and unity. Say goodbye to confusion and hello to a shared vision that paves the way for a harmonious and confident parenting journey.

($297 value)

The Continuity of Care Package

Calling all parents with children attending daycare, preschool, kindergarten, or accessing intervention services! Introduce your child’s care team to the transformative principles and strategies of ParentAbility. Enhance behavior not only at home but also in the community, ensuring continuity of care and consistent positive outcomes. By sharing our proven techniques, you empower your child’s care team to create an environment that supports growth and fosters well-behaved behavior. Experience the power of collaboration as you work hand-in-hand to provide comprehensive care that extends beyond the confines of home.

($368 value)

Continuity of Care Package

The Big Kid Action Plan

We understand the importance of involving the “big kids”! That’s why our ParentAbility program extends its reach to include resources specifically designed for older siblings. Engage and empower the older siblings with materials and activities tailored to their needs. Foster their growth and help them improve their skills alongside their younger siblings. The whole family can embark on a transformative journey together, creating a harmonious and supportive environment for everyone.

($187 value)

Big Kid Action Plan

The Unlimited Class Pass

Gain unlimited access to our exclusive topic-specific workshops. With new workshops released approximately every two months, you’ll have unlimited access to our existing and past workshops, covering a range of essential topics. Delve into the world of independent play, master the art of toilet training, learn about safe use of digital tech for tots, and so much more. With the Unlimited Class Pass, you have the freedom to explore and learn at your own pace, unlocking a wealth of knowledge and practical strategies to support your parenting journey.

($213 value)

The Resource Library

And so much more! Including exclusive access to new workshops, downloads and resources.

All of these core trainings, coaching calls, and bonuses add up to $5,900+ in value, but you can gain access to everything today starting at only $127/month!

Join ParentAbility!

Option 1 - Monthly

Membership Subscription
  • Pay Month-to-Month
  • 6-month minimum commitment
  • The Skills Section
  • The Stress Section
  • The Thinking Section
  • Private App-Based Community
  • Monthly Group Coaching Calls
  • Bonus Library of Topic-Specific Trainings

Option 2 - Annual

Membership Subscription
$ 1220 PER YEAR
  • SAVE $304/year (2+ months FREE!)
  • 1-year minimum commitment
  • The Skills Section
  • The Stress Section
  • The Thinking Section
  • Private App-Based Community
  • Monthly Group Coaching Calls
  • Bonus Library of Topic-Specific Trainings
SAVE $304!

My no-obligation guarantee: If you find that ParentAbility is not for you, you can discontinue your subscription at any time.

Are you thinking this program could never work for YOU?

Because you’re too busy?
This will take no more than 10-30 minutes a day,
you can even work this program during your drive to daycare!

Because your child is “so out of control?”
Your kiddo isn’t out of control- they’re stressed!
By building up their skills, we’ll reduce their stress. And you’ll see the
extreme meltdowns gradually disappear. 

Because you’ve tried other “gentle” ways before?
Uncommon Sense Parenting isn’t a lack of discipline. I’m going to show you how you can discipline your children with respect and empathy- and that actually works!

Here’s what I can tell you: My program has worked for HUNDREDS of families from many different countries and many different backgrounds. It can work for you, too!

So, who am I?

Hi, I’m Allana Robinson. I’m a Parenting Coach for parents of toddlers, preschoolers, and kindergarteners and I specialize in helping you understand why your child is misbehaving and how to fix it stickers, counting to 3, or losing your shit.

I’m also Mom to two wonderful kids. Using the knowledge and resources I’ve gained as a Registered Early Childhood Educator and Developmental Specialist, I put together ParentAbility to give parents an easy to digest, simple to implement, and wildly supportive program that will completely change how you view your child, how you parent, and therefore—your child’s behaviour. The most important thing I’ve learned over the years is that to inspire change in our children we need to change how we function as parents. I look forward to helping you on your journey to a happier, healthier relationship with your child!

ParentAbility is for you if:

Who this program is NOT for:

Frequently Asked Questions:

This is a self-paced group coaching program: there’s no ahead or behind. How and when you use the resources and is entirely up to you. Allana is available daily to help you implement, tweak, and troubleshoot through the app. Generally with typical children I don’t expect to see real durable change before approximately the 3-month mark, assuming you implement daily. Members have seen improvements on a shorter timeline, but I consider those exceptional results.

Show up, do the work, put in the time with your kids—and you WILL see a reduction in the behaviours that drive you crazy. Can I guarantee this? No. Much of it depends on the amount and consistency of work you put in. But the tools, materials, and coaching support you need are all there for you to succeed—you just need to apply them.

As soon as you reserve your spot in the program you’ll be shown a confirmation screen. Within about 5 minutes you should receive your welcome packet in your email inbox with instructions on how to log in, download the community app, and get started. 

This program is aimed at children 2 to 6 years old. The concepts are universal, however—and although the outcome of strong executive skills changes as a child ages, the foundational concepts do not. We have many parents who are using these concepts with their older children with great success- and we include the Big Kid Action Plan bonus to help adapt the strategise to your big kid!

It depends on the payment schedule you choose. Monthly members will have access for as long as they remain up to date on their fees, and will be removed from the portal and the community once they cancel. Yearly members will have access for 365 days from the date of payment unless they renew.

It’s not uncommon for parents to be “working from different playbooks.” Just as we believe that children do well if they can- we believe parents do well if they can too! We include the Same Page Parenting Plan bonus in ParentAbility- not to help you coerce your co-parent into “doing things your way.” But to get real clarity on your partner’s concerns, fears, and priorities and guide you through addressing them in a constructive way that meets both of your needs!


I have yet to speak to a therapist or teacher that isn’t supportive of ParentAbility strategies. For some educators and therapists the perspective we use is very new and unfamiliar, though. To help parents communicate openly and clearly with the rest of their team we provide the Continuity of Care bonus package which has every resource necessary to get your child’s teachers, therapists, and care providers on board and up to speed. If your child has a special need and you’re concerned about ParentAbility interfering with their existing therapy- please send us a message and we’ll happily help you determine if that would be the case!

We strive to make our community and program as inclusive and diverse as possible. We believe Black Lives Matter. We are LBGTQ+ allies. We are consistently changing and adapting our program to be accessible to as many humans as possible. Our materials strive to represent as many abilities, races, genders, and religions as possible. We’ll be honest: we’re not perfect. We are still learning. But we are actively revising and improving our program on an ongoing basis, and we welcome feedback and take swift action to remedy any oversights. We want every family of every format to feel safe here.

You're next! Join the hundreds of families the ParentAbility program has already helped:

Join ParentAbility today!

Option 1 - Monthly

Membership Subscription
  • Pay Month-to-Month
  • 6-month minimum commitment
  • The Skills Section
  • The Stress Section
  • The Thinking Section
  • Private App-Based Community
  • Monthly Group Coaching Calls
  • Bonus Library of Topic-Specific Trainings

Option 2 - Annual

Membership Subscription
$ 1220 PER YEAR
  • SAVE $304/year (2+ months FREE!)
  • 1-year minimum commitment
  • The Skills Section
  • The Stress Section
  • The Thinking Section
  • Private App-Based Community
  • Monthly Group Coaching Calls
  • Bonus Library of Topic-Specific Trainings
SAVE $304!

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