You Are Terrified
Of Raising an Entitled, Incompetent, Jerk
But No Matter What You Do Nothing Ever Seems to Get Better
This May Ring a Bell
You want to be confident in your parenting decisions, know why you made them, and exactly how they're going to play out.
You want to stop this game of behaviour wack-a-mole, feeling like you’re throwing parenting poop at the wall and hoping it sticks, and finally know- unquestionably- if you’re doing this whole “parenting thing” in a way that's going to result in a competent, confident, well-behaved child.
You want to feel like you actually have it all together, with children who listen- if not the first time, then the second, and make you proud to be their Mom.
So you feel like you’re drowning- maybe you’ve got a colicky newborn who won’t sleep for more than 20 minutes at a time.
Perhaps your toddler has just realised their autonomy and won’t do anything without putting on an oscar-worthy fit.
Or it's possible you're the parent to a preschooler who’s mastered the art of manipulation so perfectly you’ve begun saving for law school.
What if you understood the developmental, behavioural, and situational reasons behind how your children behave?
IMAGINE IF YOU COULD...
Feel empowered as the expert on your own children.
Have a plan on how to identify the root of the behaviours that drive you absolutely batsh*t crazy, meet them head on, and manage them with intention
Know for absolute certain if your expectations are actually appropriate for your child's developmental stage, personality, and temperament.
Parent Coaching is an effective support model that empowers you with behavioural strategies tailored to your child which you can implement in your home to reduce power struggles, improve communication, and create a more harmonious home environment.
When you're done working with me...
It’s like having a parenting manual in your pocket- except instead of a book that’s filled with generalizations, platitudes, and examples that don’t exactly match the challenges you’re facing- it’s constant, targeted, personalized feedback, problem-solving, and strategies so that you feel capable, confident, and completely prepared to handle whatever your kids are throwing at you.
What Are We Going to Cover?
Exactly what we cover is going to vary from family to family- I'm not going to shove you into a one size fits all box.
ALL OF MY CLIENTS GET THIS:
Video-Based Coaching Calls: One for every three months we work together. These face to face meetings allow us to better get to know each other, tackle big issues, really drill down deep into your priorities and break down behaviours to their root causes- and create a plan to change them.
Unlimited support via Signal Instant Messenger. It's secure and encrypted so you can be absolutely certain nobody's going to see your messages but me. You can message me any time- day or night to get clarification, a pep talk, debrief, troubleshoot, brainstorm, ask questions, and chat. I'll always respond in under 24 hours.
The Child Development Review developmental screening tool. You can complete this once every 3 months to have a crystal clear picture of where your child is thriving, and where they need a bit more support. This gives us a good look "under the hood" to make sure we're keeping things developmentally appropriate to your kids.
The Natural and Logical Consequences 20-page ebook and Masterclass recording which gives you an in depth explanation of NLCs, how they work, and an implementation plan so you can hit the ground running to stop yelling, shaming, and enforcing time outs. This resource alone is worth $75.
The Parenting Hacks Lab that contains every piece of content I've ever created: Webinar replays, workbooks, Facebook Live trainings, infographics, printables, and so much more so you can get a quick injection of knowledge on whatever behaviour you're grappling with. Have an idea for a resource that would seriously change your life? Let me know- I'll do my best to add it.
Lifetime Access to your Parenting Plan living document that records your major breakthroughs, focus items, and action plans so you can refer back to it whenever you need to. It's printable and in the accepted "Program Plan" format- especially helpful for those times where you need to confer with health or education professionals outside of the coaching relationship.
How Does This Work?
We start off with an initial 60-minute video call where we’ll get acquainted, discuss your reasons for beginning coaching, discuss some basic principles of child development, and start brainstorming strategies.
You have full access to me via Signal Messenger- a secure, encrypted messaging platform for iOS and Android. I encourage you to check in whenever you're feeling stressed, overwhelmed, need clarification, or to debrief.
I guarantee to reply to your messages in a maximum of 24 hours. Generally, as long as you aren't messaging me in the middle of the night, I'll get back to you in under 3 hours. If you catch me online, we can have a conversation right then and there.
You're encouraged to complete your Child Development Review as soon as possible. This will not only help you understand where your child is in every developmental domain- but also help me make the most helpful suggestions.
Working with Allana was a god send. We started early (maybe around the 16mo mark?) and she helped us not only to deal with crises but developing a good parenting plan and techniques both me and my husband agree on. She got us on the same page, helped us put in perspective what was relevant and when to let go. Gave us solid foundations for the toddler years and I believe that both our marriage and our parenting experience have been significantly better and smoother because of her help.
Allana is absolutely amazing. She has a knack for giving amazing advice that you can actually use, and never making you feel like the advice you need is something you should have known.
Getting advice from Allana is like getting advice from your seasoned mom friend who just happens to have the exact same parenting style as you, and is also knowledgeable in child development.
I am so thankful that I was referred to Allana. She has given me helpful advice on both discipline and sleep, and I plan to use her potty training advice in the near future!
I'm not sure coaching is really for me...
COACHING IS FOR YOU IF...
COACHING IS NOT FOR YOU IF...
Billed every 3 months for $1,197
* Prices are in Canadian Dollars
Registration for 2017 is closed and will open again in January 2018
I received some amazing advice from Allana. I had many questions regarding how to handle different behavioral situations with my 3 year old, and she taught me ways that worked. I have seen such a difference in not only my sweet boy, but myself as well!
My oldest son was verbal speech delayed, which lead to a lot of behavioral issues (hitting, throwing, and bitting) out of frustration. Allana's strategies and support were instrumental in him becoming a loving and generous preschooler who now knows how to express his feelings without hurting others.
One Final Note...
IF I COULD COMMUNICATE ONE SINGLE THING THAT WOULD HELP YOU RAISE KICK-ASS KIDS, IT WOULD BE THIS: NOBODY CAN DO IT ALONE.
Unfortunately, in today's world- support is hard to come by. Our villages are in tatters, and our kids are strongly feeling the effects of their parents lack of mentorship and guidance. It's up to us to reach out and accept the help we so desperately need to combat the rising tide of entitled, bratty, anxious children who are woefully under equipped to inherit the earth. The early years have been proven over and over again to be the foundation upon which children build their entire lives. I don't care what your background is, where you came from, or how you've parented in the past- everyone has the potential to be a rockstar parent to kids who make them proud and grow up to be adults we're completely confident in handing the future to.
You may be hesitating because of fear of judgement, lack of confidence that you can do it, or desire to prove you can figure it out by yourself. No matter what's holding you back- know this: you will not be judged, you WILL emerge from this program getting out exactly the amount of effort you put in, and I will hold your hand every step of the way.
In 3 months you will have a better relationship with your child, you will feel confident in your parenting decisions, you will understand why they do what they do- YOU WILL BE THE PARENT YOU WANT TO BE.
Once you click and take the leap...
You'll be taken to the checkout page where you can pay and complete your registration. Once your payment is complete you'll be redirected to your new client packet where you'll find clear directions on how to proceed next: everything from what emails to watch for, how to register for your client area account, how to book your initial video calls, and complete your Child Development Review screenings!
You do the math!
You can continue doing what you’ve been doing, keep piecing it together from books, articles from Google searches, and the opinions of randoms on Facebook Mommy groups OR you can get targeted, personalised, constant feedback from the coach trusted by thousands of parents around the world.